Sunday, December 27, 2009

Week 39-I'm going crazy


To start the week off I had my weekly Doctor's appointment with Dr. Klose.  I'm dialated!  But for all the contractions I had been having I thought I would be futher along then I really am.  I was 1 1/2cm.  At first I was very disappointed but now that I think about it I am super excited to be dialated at all.  At this appointment the doctor was concerned that with baby girls movement as I had not felt her all day and I was sitting there talking to him drinking a cup of coffee. ( I got no sleep the last few days).  So he hooked me up to a monitor to watch baby Guinan.  She was not moving so they tired this little buzzer zapper thing on my tummy to wake her up.  All it did was give her the hiccups.  After about 20 mins.  Dr. Klose felt better with what he saw and also metioned that I was having contractions during that time.  I laughed.  Kinda knew that already.

When I first started out on this crazy journey, I thought this will be great i'll be pregnant over the holidays. things should be slow at work and it will be nice to be able to relax. Now that I'm here and Christmas has just passed I can not believe I thought it would be easy to be pregnant during this time of year.


First there’s the whole having to get gifts for everyone and having no energy. Then there is the fact that it snows during this time of year and snow and Cheryl don't mix to start so when you had snow and pregnant Cheryl (unbalanced and unsteady and waddles a lot) you get several falls. Plus having the to wrap up everything with the nursery, washing clothes cleaning house and everything else that comes with adulthood it can be very overwhelming to say the least. Even with a super awesome husband like Dave. So on the 23rd of Dec. I had to finish making all the handmade gifts Dave and I where giving out, so they would be ready for my Family's Christmas that was on the 24th. I got it done but then everything else piled up so I came home early from work the next day and started running all the errands I had to do. Which ended up with me falling, breaking a picture I just spent a $100.00 on and not getting any of the cleaning I wanted to done. Here is where psycho, tired, wanting to nest Cheryl first shows her nasty little face. Dave was out shopping for Christmas gifts and picking up our little girls cribs so he wasn't around for me to vent to. Dave usually keeps me clam and from over reacting. I was so upset with the days events that I went though the whole house in like 10 minutes taking every item that was not in its proper place and threw it in a big pile in the middle of the dining room. I mean everything from the filing, clothes, gifts, trash, I think I even tried to keep the dogs and cat there to. I then let out the rest of my pent up stress by balling like a five year old. Not my proudest moment by far. Then poor Dave comes home to see what had happened and he was very good. He just said we were almost done why the heck would you do this? I cried and said I don't know this was all in the wrong place. He shock his head and walked a way. He came back a few seconds later and threw a sweatshirt in the pile and said wow that’s kind of fun, please tell me you at least felt better after doing this. I cried and said no because it’s just more of a mess I have to clean up now. Well we both laughed and left for my Uncles for Christmas Eve Dinner. Then we got home Dave put the crib together and I cleaned up my mess. We both felt better! Christmas was fun with my family. Baby girl got a stocking and a Santa Hat and mini Viking slippers to go with my Viking antenna ball and Jacket that was passed down to me from my grandpa. The next day we went to my in-laws and had breakfast, opened gifts, played pennies and then had Christmas Dinner. It was a great time but I was very tired to say the least. I do have to say that we got an awesome video camera so that we could video tape baby girl when she joins us and I'm very excited about that.

At the end of the weekend Dave and I completely finished the nursery and are very proud of how well it turned out and crazy Cheryl has disappeared. Thank goodness for that!




Saturday, December 19, 2009

Week 38

This has been a very busy weeks as for tying up a few louse ends. First thing first is I made it to Dec. 15th meaning I could qualify for FMLA. I was very excited and to celebrate I applied first thing in the morning and got the OB's office the paperwork they needed to fill out that afternoon at my appointment and faxed off everything I needed to fill out. Dave and I both felt a huge relief to make it to this point.


For a few months now Dave and I have been researching Pediatricians for our little girl. We asked friends for referrals, looked up the schooling history and info online about doctors. We had it down to three but about a month ago we decided that we wanted Dr. Tammy Roesler. We knew her personally, the office is close to our house and my work and she was recommended by a few of our friends. The only thing we needed to do was sit down with her so we could see her office and make sure that Dr. Tammy, Dave and I agreed on a few things and we also wanted to see how the staff was. We would have done this a while ago but Dr. Tammy was booked out by a month. So it finally came time for our Dec 14th appointment that we made way back at the beginning of Nov. Everything seemed perfect for us and that staff was very helpful and fun. So we got all the formal information we needed for the hospital and were on our way. I was just glad to have yet another thing officially completed and crossed off my list. Later that afternoon we saw Dr. Klose and baby girl seems to be doing great. Her head is still down in position and she has started to slow down in her movements which Dr. Klose says is normal and good. He still did not check to see if I had dilated at all. The things you start to obsess over when your pregnant, Hahaha!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Week 37

On the 8th we had another doctor appointment with Dr. Klose. I was looking forward to being checked as I had a ton more contractions and on the 16th of Nov he had said that I was 50% effaced. I thought for sure this baby was on her way. But he did not check to see if I was dilated as he doesn't want to risk infection and I am having contractions and everything seems to be going well. I was bummed. He did tell me that once again I lost weight which made me happy. That night Dave and I started to install the car seat in my car. Now is the time to be ready for sure. It took us a little bit mostly because my Jetta is a small car. At least that's the story Dave and I are sticking to. But we did end up getting it installed. On the 9th Dave and I had an appointment with AAA to check to make sure that Dave and I installed our car seat correctly. From RESMA, Birthing Classes and AAA, they all say that about 90% of car seats are installed incorrectly. So we were sure that we might do at least something wrong when we installed the car seat but we got a 100% on our installation. Yes I do believe we get bragging rights for that. So we left the appointment very happy and reassured. I do have to say that it is very strange driving around with a car seat. It makes it very real and also super exciting. I also felt much better to have one more thing crossed off on the list.  Then at the end of the week I had lunch with my aunt Suzanne and got my preggers photos taken.  I didn't get to go to the photographer I wanted because of some costly things that came up so I went to Sears.  On the way in the store I fell and had mud all over me.  Then the photo I really wanted ended up looking like crap so I learned the lesson to use credit if your really want something done right.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Week 36

Getting though Thanksgiving feels like such a relief. I'm down to my last month of pregnancy. Thank god. I have been having a bunch of contractions lately. The real deal ones and then as fast as they start they stop. People tell me oh those can’t be real they are just Braxton Hicks which drives me nuts. At least my doctor agrees that they are real and I keep experiencing preterm labor. They really have been taking a toll on me for sure. My doctor is still hoping to get her out sooner than later. I would like to hold off till at least the 15th of Dec. That way I can make my one year mark at work and qualify for FMLA. It's all about job security.


I have found myself going crazy over the smallest things. My mood is really crabby and I feel totally unprepared for the arrival or my baby girl. I feel like no one else can see my urgency to get ready and be ready before she comes. They just keep telling me there is time. Well my goal this week has been to try and stay calm and get some cleaning done.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Pictures of Love Bug


Thanksgiving 09


Another week down. I've been very tired and have even got to the point were I have had a few contractions 12 mins apart. Heartburn has been insane. There are times when I swear a leg or something has come out. Many people have also noticed that I have dropped. I would have to agree as breathing has gotten a bit easier for me
This week we celebrated thanksgiving. We had dinner at the Guinan's house. Loretta cooked most of the dinner and a turkey and Dave did his deep fried turkey. Thanksgiving meals and pregnancy don't mix well.
There's not a lot of room in your belly any more so you can't eat to much. So I guess it is a good thing. The day after Dave and I were on our way to do some more black Friday Shopping. Yes we were out the door at 4AM. We got an awesome deal on the rocker we wanted for the nursery. To be exact $150.00 off. Babies R Us and one in the color we wanted. We were very happy we got it! Then I was off to work and he was off to work on the nursery some more with my dad.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Doctors Appointment

Contractions are not fun. I have been having them off and on for about a week now. They are very sharp and I can feel the pain in my hips at times. These have not felt like my normal braxton hicks by any means. On Monday I went in for my doctors appointment and tell him what I have been feeling. He laughs a little and says well it sounds like you have been having prelabor again. He says "I'm not worried because if you do go into labor I'm not going to try and stop you. Baby would be better out now then in if you did go into labor." So he went ahead and did a examine on me and it turns out that I'm 50% effaced already. Dr. Klose then looks at me and says Happy Birthday! He then gave me a few directions
like don't worry about taking it easy. I would prefer two more weeks but baby is ready to go and sent me on my way. I was shocked and excited! I called Dave and told him the news. Of course this was the first appointment that I told Dave he didn't need to be at. He kinda freaked a little. He said "Really, Really the nursery is not done!" The doctor also said that I can't leave town even to cut our Christmas tree. I was a little bum to hear that. Other then that things are going well and I love the 3rd trimester.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Nursery and my Birthday

This week was a lot of fun. Dave and my dad and some friends of Dave's worked hard on painting and building the nursery for are little Love Bug!
I was super excited. I can't do much but watch and shop. So I went with them to get the paint bought a few items like curtain rods, lamps, and check out ceiling fans for the room. I do have to say it really fun to watch dad to be and grandpa to be working together on the room. My dad had replace all the old built in furniture in the room with new working dressers. A very kind gift from my parents.

On Friday Dave and I headed of to the Peppermill to celebrate my birthday for the weekend. We started off with dinner at Ruby River played pennies. On Saturday it was off to my friends baby shower and Dave and my dad worked some more
on the room. After all that it was back to the Peppermill for swimming, dinner and birthday cake my grandma made for me. On Sunday we lived it up with room service!

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Everything plus the baby tub

It's all starting to build up for the big day. Monday morning at work was very hectic to say the least. I was having a hard time focusing on my task and felt pretty useless. At 11:55 PM my boss walks by my office and says to me "Don't for get about meeting at 12:05PM today. I say I’ll be there acting like I had some idea of what she was talking about. Honestly I freaked that I had forgot and started running around my office trying to find my clip board for taking notes and looking for a quote for our mission moment. I grab my lunch and run across the street for the meeting. I get there and a few of my coworkers say surprise happy shower day! I can not tell you how relieved I was to have the shower and I really had not completely spaced a department meeting. We enjoyed Pizza and Chocolate Pie. Played a few games and opened presents. A few of the guys from the department even came to the shower one of them winning the game of guess Cheryl's Tummy Size. The department gave Baby Guinan a wonderful gift and I had a blast at my surprise Baby Shower! After that it was off to my follow up with my OB and a sonogram. Everything is going well and Baby Guinan is still a girl. On Wednesday was our final birthing class. I can't believe we have finished 6 weeks of classes. On Thursday Dave and I had our New Parents Class
were Dave and I were taught how to change diaper, give infants baths, swaddle a baby, make bottles and some of the other basics. Dave was amazing at the swaddling and paid very close attention at changing the diapers on our babies. That was awesome as they had put peanut butter in the dirty diapers.




Friday was our very last sonogram which didn't go according to plan which was very disappointing. Dave and I had planned to just have the sisters at the appointment so we could share with them the experience and then I was going to have some of the pictures made to say Merry Christmas and give albums to the grandparents for Christmas but Dave's mom ended up being there. This frustrated me cause last week when we went out to dinner I had told her I just wanted it to be the sisters. Dave said he finally told her ok she could come because she kept pressing and then saying that she would just drop Amy off. And you can't just have her drop off someone and say bye. That would be rude. We had planned to pick Amy up from where ever so this wouldn't be a problem. I think it hurt me so much because I had told my mom Saturday that I only wanted the sisters there and I know that she would have like to come. And if I would of known how it would have panned out I would have invited her as I very much would have like to share it with my mom. I felt like I was in a now awkward situation. Other then that we got to see that Baby Guinan has Daddy's nose and mommy’s lips and toes. She also gave us a beautiful smile. Dave said that this was by far his favorite out of all of them and he could actually see what people were talking about. Friday night ended with a bit of a family crisis and I ended up being up all night and spending a good part of my morning at Saint Mary’s ER. It was then time to take care of a few things and head off to my Baby Shower that Kelly had planned for me. It was so amazing and baby girl is very spoiled and Dave and I are off to a good start as for being prepared for baby. I couldn't believe how many wonderful presents baby girl got. I was so tired by the time I was done opening them. Kelly had done such a wonderful job that coworkers came up to me the next work day and said they heard my shower was better then most weddings they been to. I can't thank Kelly enough for all the hard work she put into it. My grandma, mom and mother in law took care of the food and it was very yummy! I am so thankful for all the friends and family I have by my side. I love them all.









































































That evening we had a Chev dinner that Dave was in charge of planning. We didn't finish with that till 10:00PM so after being up since 5AM on Friday morning and finally getting to bed at 11:00 PM Saturday night. I slept though the night for sure, didn't even wake up for a bathroom break or at least remember waking up.

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