One couple in love writes about the journey they take as they start their own family. Well that's how this blog started but lets cross that out, huge change of plans. Let's start over. This blog is about one women (me) and what she experiences as she navigates though divorce, motherhood and finding herself. Plus a bunch of other random crap. I'm not a writer so what you get here is just raw, honest, moments that I attempt to put into words.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
We're Pregnant. 4/22/09
It's April 22, I have been in bed for two days now, sick with pneumonia. Feeling terrible and very sick to my stomach I check over all my medications for side effects; 4 in total. While doing this I start to wonder if I'm pregnant. A smile spreads across my face as I walk to the bathroom to take a pregnancy test. 2 minutes later, I read the test and shock hits. I'M PREGNANT! No it's got to be my medicine. So I took several more. PREGNANT PREGNANT, WOW that was fast. We were just told in March that we could try again. My doctor had me doing several tests to find out what cause my miscarriage in Sept of 2008 and had instructed Dave and I to wait till all the tests came in. I have what is called Luteal Phase Defect. Basically means no trouble getting pregnant, I just have trouble keeping the pregnancy going through the first Trimester. Anyways back to the wonderful news. I'M PREGNANT! oh my god I'm pregnant, a minute later I'm on the phone calling my OB to schedule an appointment and to find out if my medication could be or is hurting my baby. My OB's nurse Sue was wonderful and took care of me by calming me down and going though each medication with me. My appointment was scheduled right away.
Now how do I tell Dave I'm pregnant? I was very sick so I did not have a lot of energy but wanted it to be special. I decide to make a banner on some baby shower wrapping paper that said welcome home Daddy! Thankfully I could do it from bed. I then made some Cinnamon Buns and put them on the table with the many pregnancy tests I took, the banner, my script from the doctor that I had to start taking right away and my easy bake oven. I waited 3 hours for Dave to come home. I couldn't wait! We he came home I told him I had an itch on my back I couldn't reach, and that I need him to scratch it. He sat down next to me and scratching my back. As he was scratching my fake itch I told him that I didn't think we had bought enough crab feed tickets for our guest. He said why? I said well we have Kelly and Phil, Robert and Torrie, Janet and Spence and me you and our baby! Dave said oh Kelly had her baby and she's bring her? Wasn't she due in Aug? I said no, I say me you and OUR BABY! Dave than started to scratch my back really hard. and then said your pregnant. I gave him a hug and said Yup!
I then told him to go look at the table so he could see my banner. He smiled kissed me and than said you need to stop taking you medicine and call the doctor. I told him I had and my appointment is this day and that he needed to go fill my prescription. He left and came home with some sparkling apple side and champagne for us to celebrate. I then went back to bed to bed to work on getting better and was Very happy!
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